CBT
- Cock & Ball Torture
general information and safety tips
"C&B play" stands for cock & ball play. "Genitorture"
stands for "genital torture". This is a subject that makes some men
clutch their nuts and run in fear, and makes other men instantly erect and
greedy for more. The male genitals are at once the most vulnerable and most
sensitive part of the male body, so of course many tops enjoy playing with them.
Cockrings are rings that go around your cock, typically around the base of it,
behind the balls. The penis becomes erect when the blood vessels at its base
constrict (because of arousal), trapping blood in the cock and causing it to
swell. Cock rings have a similar effect, prolonging erection in most men that
use them. (They also constrict the urethra, which will make any orgasm more
painful or even cause ejaculate to back up into the bladder. This is not
dangerous unless done repeatedly. Experiment to find out how much tightness is
too much.)
Most are made of leather, with
adjustable snaps, so you can tighten or loosen them to fit (as well as remove
them easily). Some are made of rubber. Some are even made of metal, but metal
ones can be hazardous; if you put a too-small one on your non-erect cock, your
cock may become so erect that you can no longer remove it--and if it is too
tight, it will prevent your cock from softening. This may involve a trip to the
emergency room and the use of bolt cutters. No joke.
Some cock rings have multiple
rings, for behind the balls, around the balls themselves, and around the base of
the shaft. Some people like using _lots_ of cock rings, to stretch the balls out
away from the body.
Safety tips: The broadest guideline is to go slowly until you know how much you
can take. If the pain from a particular activity starts to spread into other
areas of the body, or if the pain lasts for a long time after the stimulation
ends, you have probably gone beyond your limits. You won't reach this point
generally if you take your time. As with any SM practice, if you find yourself
in pain later, or if you notice any abnormalities in your cock or balls when
flaccid or erect, see a doctor. Of course, avoid any practice that seriously
wrenches or twists the genitals; there are many ligaments and blood vessels in
there, damage to which may make it hard for you to get hard. But the cock and
balls can handle light whipping or slapping, provided it is done with care.
Of course, cock and ball bondage can be done with leather strips, ribbons,
velvet cords, etc. Be as ornamental as you please; tying up an erect cock can
create a luscious
work
of art, and teasing it can be even more artistic. Don't expect C&B bondage
to keep a cock hard indefinitely; cocks will usually get soft if not stimulated,
and bondage which will keep it hard, may be dangerously tight. In any event, be
sure you can remove your bondage quickly, as always.
The technique of prostate
massage actually involves two (three) organs of the male reproductive system:
the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla, which is the
reservoir which actually holds the male sperm just prior to ejaculation. The
prostate gland when engorged can be felt by pressing a finger into the middle of
the perineum (in back of the scrotum). It is a rounded lump about the size of a large marble. It
can also be accessed via the rectum, where it can again be felt as a rounded
lump toward the front of the body and just about an index finger's length inside
the rectum. A better way to find it from the
rectum is to insert the middle finger, and slide it from just inside the rectum
(on the front side) up and in until you feel it move over a lump. That will be
the prostate. Just in back of (up from) the prostate
is a smaller and roughly triangular wedge shaped nodule that is the bottom
portion of the somewhat larger seminal vesicles, which is where most of the
fluid of the ejaculate is produced and
accumulated. Underneath the seminal vesicles are the ampulla.
During sexual arousal, sperm
and ejaculatory fluid accumulate in these glands backing up behind valves in the
ejaculatory ducts. When fluid pressure reaches a high enough threshold, the
valves open and the urethral bulb fills, triggering the ejaculatory reflex and
muscular contractions of orgasm, which empties the glands.
The seminal vesicles, ampulla
and prostate can also be emptied by massage of these glands through the rectum.
Rhythmically massaging the organs in an in-and-out motion with an anal dildo is
one way, but perhaps a more reliable way is to simply use either the middle
finger or the middle finger and index finger together (well lubricated), to
apply a firm slow massage over the nodules of the glands inside the rectum. The massage will force
the seminal fluid and sperm past the valves in the ejaculatory ducts, and empty
the prostate (which discharges directly into the urethra). If arousal is low or
penile stimulation is stopped for a brief time before the prostate massage
begins, draining of the ejaculate into the urethra will not trigger orgasm. Once
ejaculate appears at the meatus, it will help to empty the urethra by running a
finger firmly up the underside of the penis from the root to the head, pushing
the ejaculate in front of it.
A variant of the prostate massage that is quite effective in limiting any
tendency to orgasm and the pleasurable sensations of fluid passing through the
ejaculatory ducts and urethra, is the "ice massage": at least 10
minutes prior to the prostate massage, plastic bags full of crushed ice are
packed around the male's cock and balls. The bags remain in place during the
prostate milking. When the massage is completed, the bags are
removed. This technique also makes a very appropriate opportunity to install a
chastity device on the male's shriveled penis. (This technique
work
s best if the male if fastened down - it's very hard to get a
man to stay still when his genitals are being frozen.) Naturally, hubby will not
be at all pleased to be denied the small amount of pleasure of the surrogate
orgasm as the milked fluid is forced through his
numbed ejaculatory ducts.
A condom may be used to collect
the ejaculate, so that the mistress can gage when an amount of fluid normal for
an orgasm has been collected. At this point the prostate massage can be ended.
While the prostate massage is
very pleasurable, most men are unable to orgasm by prostate massage without some
kind of penile stimulation. Once a sufficient amount of ejaculatory fluid has
been drained, insufficient fluid pressure to trigger the ejaculatory reflex will
remain, and no amount of penile stimulation will result in orgasm until the
fluid glands are recharged. This may take several hours to several days.
This technique may be used to
frustrate male masturbation and orgasm if applied at appropriately timed
intervals. That may need to be once every day or two unless the male is secured
in a chastity belt. Belted males will still
need to have their glands drained every few weeks to maybe 3 months in order to
avoid nocturnal ejaculations with orgasm. With regular prostate milkings, a male
may be deprived of orgasmic release for an arbitrarily long time with no
deleterious effects.
How long to go between milkings
will have to be gauged by experiment. You want to go as long as possible without
triggering an orgasmic wet dream, since the pressure of fluid buildup increases
the urgency of orgasm denial.
That's the whole point, right? The longest I've gone without an orgasm in my
adult life is maybe a month or so. While I didn't have a wet dream, I had rock
hard and throbbing erections within my chastity
device after about 10 days or so. I'd guess that 6 weeks between milkings might
be a good start. Then add a couple of weeks to that each time between milkings,
until a wet dream is triggered (but don't
go longer than 3 months between milkings). You should add a clause to your
contract that hubby must confess any wet dream or other spontaneous orgasm. I'd
suggest that you restart the one year
chastity period from that day if one occurs. He's already had his orgasm, and
will have to wait the full period till the next one.
A particularly effective way of
increasing an orgasm deprived male's sense of sexual frustration between
prostate milkings is to masturbate him once a day every day to just short of
orgasm, then install a chastity device. I'd
say this at least triples the urgency of orgasm denial. If you do this, you will
need to milk him more often, maybe every 2-4 weeks. After milking, the cycle can
be started over. One woman I know
sometimes masturbates her hubby to just short of orgasm multiple times a day
between milkings!
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